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Showing posts with label nonfiction. Show all posts

Review: Everybody Always by Bob Goff

Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult PeopleEverybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People by Bob Goff
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

[Disclaimer: I received a free copy of this book from Bookish First for review purposes.]

I've read through some reviews of Bob Goff's first book, Love Does: Discover a Secretly Incredible Life in an Ordinary World, but since I haven't actually read that book I semi-dismissed them. There was some commentary that I remember about how Love Does is pretty much a "Look at me and what I did" bragfest. After reading Everybody, Always, yes I can see that he does do the humblebrag a lot. It's not quite humble, though, since even though he's always bringing it back to Jesus, it's still a "look what I did" kind of thing (and holy crow is this guy rich and he lets us know it). I get what he's doing with it - Jesus works with us and through us and yes we can all do amazing things just by loving others. But I can see where people are coming from when they say it feels like he just spends a couple hundred pages bragging about his accomplishments.

That aside, I really did enjoy this book. It gets repetitive - love everyone, love your enemies, love the difficult people, etc. Jesus loves us, we should love everyone, yadda yadda. But I think that the repetitiveness reinforces how it's something we all need to practice. And practice. And practice. Because we're never going to be perfect, but at least we can practice.

This guy sounds like he has an amazing life. Yeah, I'm a bit envious of all the traveling he's done, everything he's done for others, and even how much he's managed to grow throughout. I rolled my eyes a few times at the mention of buying houses, motorcycles, and planes on a whim. But he interjects so much humor at such random moments that it made up for it. And underneath the wealth, I could see a man who is far from perfect, but wants to be like Jesus, and wants everyone else to be like Him too.

If you can get past the "Look at me" feeling of the book, this is highly recommended for anyone struggling with how to love others, especially those you don't want to love. The last few chapters were a story in themselves, which I found remarkable. I am hoping to pass this book along to the people I love and hope they can get something good out of it as well.

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Review: Hooray For Me

Hooray For Me: A Foggy MemoirHooray For Me: A Foggy Memoir by Ello Black
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

[DISCLAIMER: I RECEIVED A COPY OF THIS FROM THE GOODREADS GIVEAWAYS IN EXCHANGE FOR AN HONEST REVIEW]

I *really* wanted to enjoy this book, because it sounded so funny and interesting. Unfortunately, it just didn't live up to expectations. I read the little introduction, explaining that the spelling and grammar wasn't going to be standard because it's just the way she writes, which is fine, but I couldn't really get past it.

This book is a series of vignettes about Ello Black's life. It was too short to have any depth to it, and none of the stories related to each other except for the fact that they all had at least something to do with her dad (some more than others). Yes it was funny, and yes the stories were biographical, but at some point there needs to be cohesion and that cohesion just never came.

It was also difficult to read because of the voice. It was as if she was speaking the book to me instead of writing it, but that's not really how I enjoy to read. Dialect is one thing, but there should have at least been some proofreading done to make it grammatically correct. I know that she said in the intro that she isn't grammatically correct and that's just the way it is, but there's only so much of it that I can take before I start getting out my red pen.

I wish this had been more of a cohesive story and less of separate essays on various parts of her life that, frankly, weren't all that extraordinary in the first place. The chapter on her father's death was certainly heartbreaking and the chapter in which she recounts being bullied struck a chord with me. But the rest felt like filler.

Ello, you seem like a cool person and I hope you keep on being your bad self. And thanks for the book. It just didn't do it for me.

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Review: The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks

In a previous post I mentioned how I'm kind of getting into ebooks for some of my reading. Well, I managed to get my hands on a copy of the ebook of The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks and boy was that a doozy!

As I've mentioned previously, Goodreads has become an invaluable resource for me in my book addiction. I literally spend hours on that site when I visit, perusing my friends' recent reading, checking up on new giveaways, editing my library... So of course it makes sense that I would go to Goodreads for reviews of books I've just finished. Note: I (almost) never read reviews before I read the books themselves. I find it spoils my desire to read the book and I end up not enjoying it. I much prefer to read them after, when I've had a chance to digest the book's contents, and can coherently articulate my thoughts.

I realize I'm starting with the end here. Let's back it up a little bit.

Non-fiction is not my thing. I get really bored really quickly with books that just aren't written well, and I've had a lot of trouble with non-fiction because I find a lot of the books I've chosen to read over the years just weren't written well. They were written by someone who wanted to get something off her chest, or by a historian who has no idea how dry his prose really is. But last year (I believe anyway) I read an article on CNN about this book, The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot about a woman whose cancer cells were taken from her during a biopsy, and have been growing and multiplying since, while she died of her horrible disease, a very painful death and one from which her family never recovered. They're called the HeLa cells (pronounced HEE-lah), and they are responsible for the polio vaccine, many cancer treatments, advancements in HIV/AIDS research, and may other scientific advancements since their harvesting in the 1950s.

The problem put forth in the book: Henrietta Lacks' cells may be immortal, but she certainly wasn't. And while people were getting richer and richer off her miracle cells, her family was barely surviving in the squalor in which they lived. Most were uneducated past elementary school, her children were all partly deaf because she had married her first cousin, cousins were having sex with each other, her daughter was being molested by another cousin, and the ignorance in which this family lived threatened to wipe them out. When scientists came knocking for their cells after Henrietta died, the family had no idea what had actually happened to her. When they were finally told the advancements her cells had made possible, they believed that she was still alive, that her cells had created a new her. That when her cells flew into space, Henrietta had flown into space. That they had cloned Henrietta in London and that they would someday visit and see her there.

It was funny and sad at the same time. Henrietta had done so much for humanity without her knowledge, and yet her family couldn't even pull itself up by the bootstraps.

Rebecca Skloot had to do a lot of digging and had to be persistent in order to get the family to talk to her. She mentions this a few times in the book, and that was something the reviewers on Goodreads brought up when they wrote negatively about it. One reviewer said,

Furthermore, I don't feel the admiration for the author of this book like I think many others do. She wanted to make herself out to be different than all the rest of the people who wrote about the woman behind the HeLa cell line but I only saw the similarities. Yes, she has established a scholarship fund for the descendants of Henrietta Lacks but I got tired of hearing again and again how she financed her research herself. I think the exploitation is there, just prettied up a bit with a lot of self-congratulatory descriptions of how HARD she had to try to talk to the family and how MANY times she called asking for interviews. At times I felt like she badgered them worse than the unethical people who had come before.

I didn't get that at all from the book (considering she only mentioned twice how she was paying for the research herself), but it shocked me to see so many other people saying exactly the same thing. I read it differently (and said so). It made me sad that people could so seriously misconstrue an author's intent when it seems so clear that the only motive behind this book is to expose the moral, ethical and legal obligations the doctors may or may not have had toward her family. Some people also accused Skloot of bias in her reporting, since she became so close with the family. I didn't see that either, especially in the afterword when she presents the questions in a very scientific and ethical way. She gives both sides, tells the law, explains the science, and then gives the story of the family. She is interjected into the story only because without her presence the book wouldn't make sense. She is a necessary character, and maybe her personal bias showed, but her journalistic bias was not compromised.

I invite you to read the book and decide for yourself. I really loved Skloot's story of the Lacks family and ate it up like a giant piece of chocolate cake. It was a fantastic book and I would love to know what you all think of it, whether you agree or disagree with me, and what you think of the ethics involved in cell and tissue donation.

Review: The Shadows Between Us by Tricia Levenseller

The Shadows Between Us by Tricia Levenseller My rating: 3 of 5 stars OK. I'm going to come at this from the angle that everyone (exc...